Restaurant etiquette for dogs – and children
Written by Jan Norris
Photography by Elizabeth Palace
We know: You think your dog is pretty special. Your child is extraordinary, too.
That’s perspective. Those dining around you may beg to differ, especially if the animals are being aggressive or the kids are running around loose, disturbing the peace of others just trying to have a meal.
Let’s play nice when we take out the kids. Other patrons are paying, too.
Courtesy rules — and the law:
Prepare to sit outside. Dogs are not allowed inside restaurants (it’s a Florida law) unless they’re true service dogs.
Those who try to skirt the issue may face scorn from others, and a not so subtle nudge from the manager if enough people complain. Having them in a stroller or purse doesn’t matter: It’s cheating. And unsanitary no matter how clean you keep them.
Have your animal on a short leash, and don’t allow them to block walkways or doors.
Do not allow them to sit on chairs, and definitely not on the table. If they have a restricted diet, let those around you know, since kind patrons sometimes throw food on the ground for them.
Bring your own dish for their water or food.
Expect to pay for any food you order for them. Some restaurants have a pup patty or chicken nuggetty just for them, and it may be complimentary with your meal, but ask ahead of time so there are no surprises. Have a pick-up bag for accidents. The restaurant staff isn’t paid for cleanups like that.
As for kids, bring crackers or some finger food for the toddlers to keep them happy before your order arrives. If there’s a full blown meltdown happening, take the child outside to calm them down.
Keep them in their seats, and away from the condiments. Ask for extra napkins to handle mishaps that you know will happen.
Choose foods your child will like; trying new foods at a restaurant can be costly and unpleasant all around.
Set a good example in restaurants by respecting your server and showing your children proper dining manners.
Tips for Dining with Dogs in Jupiter:
• Always keep your dog leashed and well-behaved.
• Bring a travel bowl and water, just in case.
• Call ahead—policies can change based on weather, space, or events.
• Don’t forget treats for your pup (and maybe a little nibble from your plate too).
• Use the BringFido app to check pet-friendliness before you go.
